I thought ahead with the tool believing it would be helpful for other teams, never pushed it, and it was the case
But anyway, what would you do in my situation
If you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Thomas Kopczynski • i would push it
why not
but
i give my ppl a lot of autonomy
not sure how yur leads r

You • I mean in general not the tool thing
I already had autonomy when I was motivated
Or under the assumption
That we would be aligned
What would you do in my situation
If he ignores me I can ignore him right?

Thomas Kopczynski • haha

You • If he ducks me I can duck him?

Thomas Kopczynski • i mean, good logic
but
is it the right thing?
u just pushing in lower env right?

You • No and doing the right thing hasn’t gotten me anywhere here and that’s the wrong lesson to be teaching
I don’t do this with my team ever

Thomas Kopczynski • i wouldnt see an issue but some ppl get rly weird

You • Wym I’m just pushing in lower env

Thomas Kopczynski • im asking if it's just lower env? cause then i would push as long as its not gon ruffle anyone
if it's gon ruffle someone, go tell em what u gon do

You • Oh wait idk what we are talking about
Context collapsed
I’m talking about in general regarding Kulveer ducking me
And compensation

Thomas Kopczynski • LOL

You • Not the tool thing that was me showing u value I provided ford and my foresight

Thomas Kopczynski • dud
dude
when u said 'i never pushed it' i thought i meant never merged it for use

You • I am dead

Thomas Kopczynski • sorry dude im sick and on not much sleep
soooo
its one of those things u can use as example for next team

You • Me neither I had my team hitting me up in the AMs
They needed more servers

Thomas Kopczynski • but not sure what u gonna get from kulveer for it
have u spoken w him lately?

You • No he wasn’t even joining our standings s
Standups

Thomas Kopczynski • ugh

You • I don’t even wanna join todays retro

Thomas Kopczynski • he should be contacting u

You • Like a mini protest behavior

Thomas Kopczynski • lol
just join n be quiet

You • He volunteered I lead the one next week
Or maybe he meant today
I’m not tryna go
Cuz how disrespectful u gotta be to not address things w me and act like things are normal

Thomas Kopczynski • well, im not even tryna work today but i gotta do what i gotta do
same w u

You • Yeah I provided my value yesterday
Despite the disrespect in general
I want quantification

Thomas Kopczynski • well, dude we know u not gonna get a lot from him

You • Well I am going to leave ford man I want it on good terms

Thomas Kopczynski • ugh
dude ill call ya after this mtng

You • It’s not my fault I’m leaving on bad terms
Thank you for your support and mentorship this past year
nobody is this busy
what a circus im out

Thomas Kopczynski • what does that mean

You • I’m gonna match energy

Thomas Kopczynski • not the way to go

You • Ur advice led me to picking up heavy lifting yet again these past 5 months

Thomas Kopczynski • we are waiting on your call its 4pm on a fri, if u not going to join pls cancel

You • There’s no consequences for disrespecting one and other
Wym I did she cancelled last second

Thomas Kopczynski • i dont see a cancellation and kulveer and i are on webex

You • I’m opening my laptop