You • ** talk money walk
did you know
during my time here
past five when i wanted to be with family
i would be guilted in staying for hours
and my family would be waiting for me
and one time i was told "career or family, your choice"
in writing too.
they would cross my boundaries
look at this man still trying to treat me like a robot
my family would be ready to leave for the weekend and wait on me until 7-8pm on a friday.
im tired of not being valued here
and i asked kulveer and he just ignores anything that has to do with anything serious
he doesnt even spell my name correctly, no one on my team pronounces my name correctly ive even corrected them
im not a robot fr.
no one at ford wants to acknowledge the work i did and i let ppl walk over me here.
i wish i started my time at ford on jeffs team.
this is how you treat another human

Thomas Kopczynski • yea
i think u got a bad hand w the first rotation

You • i dont want to wait around

Thomas Kopczynski • not sure what is up w that space but just seems off

You • and have the chance at another one
i want to be valued now.
i neglected my family without realizing
that like i lowkey was taken advantage of
and not even awraded
lovebombed maybe
how the hell am i supposed to move forward
and deliver my best
when i have breeded resentment during hiring process and during my time so far
im not a robot
on a day i was off lol

Thomas Kopczynski • read yur unreads

Thomas Kopczynski • dude u gotta set boundaries
if u off, u off

You • "career or family, ur choice"
"u have to stay u represent ford it looks bad in front of contactors"

Thomas Kopczynski • if ppl are saying that, i would send to kulveer or even engage FCG committee

You • ik i set boundaries now
but what im saying is
i did the most until i realized
i was being taken advantage of
id get called at 7 pm on my personal phone
to come home and help
i genuinely promise you i did the work of 3 people
and kulveer can act like he had the budget

Thomas Kopczynski • i believe u but

You • for hire on those three ppl

Thomas Kopczynski • slow down for a min
u cant work 80 hrs a week cause ppl cant manage timelines and expectations

You • i dont anymore

Thomas Kopczynski • if kulveer hasnt set up a team that can delivewr when he commits, thats on him
youre an fcg

You • its the fact
hes ducking me for all the work i did
what happened happened
moving forward whats gonna happen right
thats what i keep hearing
words vs action
if this was a relationship id be gone the second i saw stuff not align
i need to know
is something gonna happen

Thomas Kopczynski • so it may not happen overnight

You • or not

Thomas Kopczynski • u know?

You • i am not sitting around
and finding out im young
and i have family that supports me

Thomas Kopczynski • well u gotta sit around lol

You • i can take risks.
no i sat around long enough
to be taken advantage of.

Thomas Kopczynski • unless u want to take the nuclear option and leave

You • no one wants to do that in any situation
its called comprimise
i forwarded you my negotiation email
for the offer letter in the beginning
NO CONVERSATION
i accepted cuz my siters there
sisters
dads friends in ford
and i liked ford
and wanted to grow within this org
i have been taken advantage of yk

Thomas Kopczynski • u got a bad hand dealt first rotation

You • i sat around for a year
why am i gonna sit around another year
to "find out"
i need information
am i going to be ducked for my efforts this past year or nto
not
i need in writing via email
without me having to throw a fit, leave, or find another offer
i dont want resentment
imagine ford only offering u money
because u got a job elsewhere
why not get valued in the first place?

Thomas Kopczynski • dude u too fired up
u need a walk

You • shows where their head is at
im fired up cuz kulveer ignores me

Thomas Kopczynski • and some deep breathing

You • whenever i talk about this stuff

Thomas Kopczynski • i know

You • but when he talks about anything else
i respond and help

Thomas Kopczynski • u feel dismissed i get it
but
remember what i told u
cooler heads prevail

You • so what do i do
sit like a robot
and stay cool? not mocking the saying, i really like the reminder and agree and have been trying to apply it

Thomas Kopczynski • u need to plan what you want 
think about what you want out of the next yr

You • So just charge all the work this past year to the game?